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“Praying for Hillary and his family. May they feel God's healing presence. ”
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“Sincere condolences to all in your family for your great loss during this difficult time of sorrow. In the days ahead may you find comfort and hope...Read More »
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“Thank you dear soldier for your service to our country.A grateful American ”
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“Hilary was an amazing father to Brian. He supported him at many STAR functions and always was his partner at the Walk. He was his best advocate and...Read More »
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Hilary Peter Donegan passed away peacefully at his home on November 18th 2017. He was born in Farmingdale, New York on October 14th, 1940 to Margaret Brady Donegan and Denis James Donegan. He graduated from Farmingdale High School and C.W. Post College. He took great pride in his service in the United States Army. He began his career in wealth management at Banker’s Trust Company in 1964 and continued his career there until retiring as a Managing Director of Deutsche Bank in 2005. He treasured his forty-six year membership at Winged Foot Golf Club where he proudly served on the Board of Governors from 1995 to 2000. His happiest moments were spending time with family and friends there. For him there was no more perfect place. In recent years he thoroughly enjoyed participating in the Darien Men’s Association. The friendship and fellowships he strengthened there meant the world to him. He was an active volunteer serving as the president of the STAR, Inc. Foundation which serves families affected by developmental & intellectual disabilities. His true purpose as a father came from being the voice and best friend of his son Brian. He is survived by his beloved family, Carol his wife of forty-two years and his sons Denis, Brian and Colin. He is also survived by his brothers Denis and Dick and his sister Cissy Moffatt. Calling hours will be at Lawrence Funeral Home in Darien on Sunday November 26th from 3:00pm to 6:00pm. A Mass of Christian Burial will be held at Saint Thomas More Church in Darien on Monday November 27th at 10:30am. Interment will follow with Full Military Honors at Spring Grove Cemetery in Darien. In lieu of flowers the family requests memorial gifts be made in Hilary’s memory to the STAR Foundation,Visit STAR Foundation or at 182 Wolfpit Ave Norwalk, CT 06851 or to Camp Horizons, Visit Camp Horizons or at PO Box 323 South Windham, CT 06266.